If you’re looking for a way to spice up your love life, then it’s high time you got a sex toy. From handcuffs to whips, you’ve got so many different kinds to choose from. One of the kinkiest sex toys out there is the infamous butt plug. You’ve probably heard of it, but are wondering how it works.
Luckily, I’m here to teach you how to insert a butt plug, and how to safely remove it once you’re finished using it. But first, let’s see what these sex toys look like, and what they actually do.
What does a butt plug look like?
Butt plugs come in numerous different shapes and sizes. You can choose from tiny plugs to enormous, wide ones. It all depends on what you prefer. But no matter what kind you choose, they all have a few key features in common. They all have a wide bulb-shaped top, a narrow neck in the middle, and a flat base at the bottom.
Now, you can also choose butt plugs made from different materials, like latex, silicon, metal, glass, wood, neoprene, etc. It all depends on what you like.
Additionally, you can find butt plugs with attachments, electronic plugs, plugs that vibrate, ones you can inflate, and so on. But that’s a topic for another time.
What does a butt plug do?
If you’ve engaged in anal sex, you know just how good it feels. What a butt plug does is it stretches your anus and stimulates all of your internal and external nerve endings. In short, it replicates the feeling you get when having anal sex.
There are numerous ways you can use a butt plug. You can use it just before anal sex, to help dilate your anus, you can use it during sex to increase pleasure, and you can wear it out in public, underneath your clothes. It’s completely up to you.
But no matter where or how you use a butt plug, you need to know how to properly insert it, and how to remove it.
How to insert a butt plug
The first thing you need to do before inserting your butt plug is to lubricate. You will need to lubricate both the plug and your anus. Don’t be stingy. In this case, it’s better to apply as much lubricant as possible.
Once you’re done, you’ll have to choose a comfortable position.
- Doggy position: bend over on all fours.
- On your back: lay down on your back and place a cushion under your bottom, and spread your legs.
- Squat: squat over your butt plug either on your feet or on your knees.
Next, hold the base and shaft of the plug and position it at the opening of your anus. The tip should be angled towards your stomach. Slowly start pushing the plug into your anus. Do this as slowly and gently as possible.
If you feel any sharp pain, stop pushing. You may have to add some more lubricant before continuing. If you don’t feel any pain, you can keep pushing the plug. The tip should pass through the outer layer of your rectum, and you shouldn’t feel any pain. Keep doing this until you’ve pushed the bulb and neck of the plug into your anus.
Once the tip of the butt plug reaches the muscles of your sphincter, you need to keep those muscles as relaxed as possible. If they tense up, you’ll have a hard time pushing the plug in.
If you’ve done everything according to my directions, the bulb and neck should be completely inside your rectum, and the flat base should be resting externally.
Don’t worry if it feels a bit weird once you’ve inserted it. You should only remove it if you feel any intense discomfort or pain.
Now that it’s inside of you, you can do whatever you like with it!
How to remove a butt plug
Once you’ve finished having fun with your butt plug, you need to grab the stem, and gently pull. Remember, you will need to pull it out gently, just like when you were inserting it. Your sphincter will start clenching around the stem of the plug. That’s why it’s dangerous to just yank out the plug.
Try pushing the plug out as if you were having a bowel movement while pulling it out at the same time.
As soon as you pull out the wide part of the plug, you should be able to easily remove the rest of the plug.
Now all you have to do is thoroughly clean your toy, and you’re done!